Midlife Mavericks: Instead of Waiting to Retire, Reinvent

November 9, 2023

I know you’ve had those moments—late at night, when you’re staring at the ceiling, wondering if there’s something more to life beyond the routines and the familiar. I know because I’ve had them. We’ve all had them.

And here you are. You’ve reached those midlife years, your late 40s or 50s and there’s this yearning, an itch for change—for purpose. Retirement it’s not too far away, and the idea of trading your daily work for leisure and travel is alluring. But what if I told you there’s a different way, a way to re-define this stage, to rekindle your passions and set off on a journey that’s deeply fulfilling?

The allure of retirement is undeniable. It promises the freedom to travel the world, to savor every precious moment with your family, and to enjoy the fruits of your hard-earned labor. It sounds perfect, right? 

But what if we could make it even better?

What if we could shatter the notion of “work” that often haunts these years and reframe it as “passion”? Imagine your heart racing with excitement as you delve into new projects, guided by the desires and dreams that have been within you since your youth. To be clear, it’s not about trading one form of work for another; it’s about pursuing something you genuinely care about.

Reframing “Work” as “Passion”

Our culture has a way of casting a shadow on the concept of “work.” For many, it’s synonymous with the Monday morning blues and the unending to-do lists. When I took to Quora to explore how people felt about the idea of entrepreneurship during their midlife years, I encountered different responses. Some firmly declared that entrepreneurship was “out of the question.” They associated it with more stress, more deadlines, and more of what they were trying to escape. Others echoed the sentiment that entrepreneurship was merely “another form of work.” It’s true that the entrepreneurial journey has its challenges, just like any other endeavor. It’s not a path paved with constant ease, but it’s one paved with a unique sense of purpose, the freedom and courage to pursue your passions, and the ability to create something that makes you say, “See, I went for it. I did it! I built something.”

On a different note, there were individuals, let’s call them “midlife mavericks,” who passionately declared their unwavering commitment to creating, building, and doing. Among them were writers, chefs, artists, musicians, and educators who insisted that they would never hang up their working boots. Their work was more than a “job”; it was an integral part of who they were, something they couldn’t fathom giving up.

But we have internalized that at this stage of life we have to slow down, kick back, and savor the fruits of our labor, as if we had nothing else to offer the world. However, when we embrace a slowdown devoid of purpose or passion to guide us, it often feels like something is missing or incomplete. This unintentionally shapes our attitudes and behaviors; potentially leading to a self-fulfilling prophecy of physical and mental decline. After all, who really aspires to experience such decline?

I want to change the narrative. 

In a research study featured in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, found that continuing to work for just a single year beyond the typical retirement age correlated with a remarkable 9% to 11% reduction in the risk of mortality, irrespective of an individual’s health status.

During your midlife years, you have the potential to contribute significantly more than you did during your youth. With the wisdom, experience, and skills accumulated over the years, this life stage offers a unique opportunity to make a substantial impact on various aspects of life, be it in you career, your community or your personal growth. But slowing down and disengaging from work can limit your potential. It’s essential to understand that there’s a wealth of experience, wisdom, and passion to offer well into your 40s and 50s and beyond. You just have to want it.

I want to shift your perspective to view midlife not as a time to slow down, but as an opportunity to reinvent and reignite; and to embrace the idea that entrepreneurship during these years is not just another “form of work” but a chance to do what you genuinely care about. It’s a transformation of thought that invites to wonder—What if?

  • What if this period of your life was not about escape, but a call for a life that’s deeply fulfilling?
  • What if we redefined ‘work’ in our lexicon as ‘passion’ and embarked on projects that light our souls on fire?
  • What if, instead of bidding farewell to your skills and wisdom, you harnessed them to build something life-changing?

The concept of embracing the “what if” is at the heart of this journey, and it’s precisely what we’re going to explore together right now. 

But first, let’s replace “work” with “passion.” Passion is about doing something you love, something that resonates with your heart. It’s about using your skills and expertise to craft a life that it’s truly you. It’s not about escaping work; it’s about doing work that doesn’t feel like work at all. 

Here are some examples of what that pursuit of passionate purpose could look like for you:

1. Consulting Services: Your work experience in a particular field can be turned into a consulting business. Whether it’s marketing, finance, human resources, or any other area, there are businesses and individuals looking for your valuable expertise.

2. Environmental and Sustainable Ventures: If you’re passionate about the environment, consider teaching workshops or educational events on recycling and waste reduction. These workshops can target schools, businesses, or communities and teach people how to recycle effectively and reduce their environmental impact.

3. Online Content Creation: If you’re passionate about a particular subject or hobby, you could start a blog, YouTube channel, or a podcast to share your knowledge and experiences. Your expertise can attract a dedicated audience and potentially lead to monetization opportunities.

4. Art and Craft Businesses: If you have artistic talents or craft-making skills, consider selling your creations online or at local markets. It’s a way to turn your hobbies into a profitable venture.

5. Teaching and Online Courses: If you have knowledge to share, whether it’s a language, a skill, or a subject matter, you can create online courses, start a YouTube channel, or offer tutoring services. The e-learning market is snowballing.

6. Life Coaching and Mentoring: Drawing from your life experiences, you could become a life coach or mentor, guiding others through various challenges and transitions, helping them find their own paths to success and happiness.

7. Tech Training: Share your tech expertise by offering online courses or workshops. You can teach coding, data analysis, or any other tech-related skills that are in demand.

8. Health and Wellness Ventures: Help individuals make healthier dietary choices by becoming a nutritional coach or offering meal planning services. You can guide clients in adopting balanced and sustainable eating habits.

9. Personal Chef Services: If you enjoy preparing meals, become a personal chef for busy professionals who don’t have the time or expertise to cook. You can offer meal planning, grocery shopping, and cooking services in clients’ homes.

These examples are just a starting point to inspire you. The key is to pursue something you’re genuinely passionate about, something that resonates with your heart, and to explore how you can turn that passion into a fulfilling entrepreneurial dreams.

Embracing Your Second Act with Heart

Let me share a personal story about my journey. A few years back, as I transitioned into my 40s, a sense of restlessness and a yearning for something more ignited within me. And just like you, I laid in bed staring at my ceiling wondering about life and my purpose on this earth. I felt I needed to build something. It was like an internal fire suddenly coming out after years of being buried beneath the weight of daily commute, the long hours at work, and the monotony of everyday life.

This yearning didn’t come out of nowhere. It was born from a culmination of experiences. The more I pondered it, the clearer it became. There were several reasons I felt this powerful pull toward something different, something more meaningful.

First, it was the awareness that life is finite.

The passage of time has a way of sharpening our perspective. As I looked back at the years that had gone by, I couldn’t help but contemplate the nature of life. It’s not a morbid thought, but a recognition that our time on this planet is limited. With this awareness, I reevaluated how I was spending my days and whether they truly aligned with what I held dear in my heart.

Second, a longing for purpose

Somewhere along the way, the routine of daily work had felt empty. Don’t get me wrong, I had a more or less successful career, but success alone didn’t equate to personal fulfillment. I yearned for a deeper sense of purpose, for work that didn’t just pay the bills but also made me happy. I wanted to wake up in the morning with a sense of excitement, knowing that the day ahead held meaning and impact.

Third, the desire to make a difference

Perhaps it was the world around me, the challenges we constantly face, or the inescapable digital world we live in, but I couldn’t help but feel a growing desire to contribute to it. I wanted to leave a mark, to make a positive difference, to share the knowledge and skills I’d gained over the years with others who might have felt just like I did (and still do)

So, the fire within me blazed to life.

My Second Act

I decided to embrace my second act with heart. I started my own consulting business, not as a means of “work” but to follow my passion for coaching and guiding aspiring entrepreneurs. It was terrifying, yes, but it was also incredibly rewarding. I realized I wasn’t escaping work; I was entering a whole new world of living.

So as you stand at the crossroads of midlife, I want you to know that midlife is about finding your purpose. It’s a moment to reignite your enthusiasm, to embark on fresh adventures, and to create a life that resonates with your heart. It’s about pursuing opportunities that not only lift your soul but also leave a meaningful impact on the lives of others.

Don’t Just RE-tire, RE-invent

Isn’t it fascinating how language, sometimes unconsciously, guides our perceptions and choices? The mere coincidence that ‘retirement’ and ‘reinvention’ both start with ‘re’ is more than a linguistic quirk; it’s a profound insight into the duality of this life stage. ‘Re’ signifies not only ‘again’ but also ‘rebirth’ and ‘renewal.’ While ‘retirement’ beckons us to slow down, ‘reinvention’ calls us to embrace change, to rewrite our narratives, and to renew our sense of purpose. It’s a reminder that we have the power to choose our path and cast aside the old ideas and embrace our second act with open arms. Because, instead of retiring, why not reinvent? 

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